Why do we think
We can quantify pain
Or suffering?
Who do we think we are
To decide how anyone else—
Other than ourselves—
Should react to the horrors we experience?
Before, during, or after—
(All three, places your opinion is irrelevant.)
How dare we reduce trauma
To a checklist of symptoms?
As if what You Would Have Done
Means anything to someone else.
Why do victims have to fight
Just to wear the cursed name?
Why then does the label
“Victim”
So easily become
A badge of dishonor:
Stolen from the perpetrator
And forcibly attached
To their victim?
As if they haven’t suffered enough already.
This is beautiful. It is so true. I just… I can’t even put it in to words, it just hit home.
-Amy
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Thank you so much. Honestly they comment is exactly the reason I wrote the poem: because we all understand this but we talk about it so little.
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🙂 It definitely touched me.
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